We know well that the number of divorce is increasing day by day and the fact is that 40% couples actually did not want to break the relationship. All of us wish to be in a long-lasting married life and you should realize that marriage requires constant work and struggle for mutual understanding and happiness. Be ready to face the reality of marriage and do your best to maintain love, passion and friendship regardless of all possible problems and barriers. There are so many secrets to a long-lasting and harmonic marriage. Here are some effective way, which helps you..1.Positive outlook
You should realize that negative outlook can greatly affect the relationship in your marriage. If one spouse is a depressing figure in the couple, it can make any marriage unhappy. Stay positive and you will significantly improve the atmosphere in your family for better. It is necessary to develop the bright side of your mind by thinking positively. Moreover, you should help your spouse get rid of negativity and depressive thoughts, if necessary.2. Develop your identity
When two people get married, they become one in making financial decisions and raising children. They usually get so overloaded with various tasks that can easily lose their identity. Moreover, women tend to want to please their husbands and make sacrifices in order to do it. This recipe for unhappiness can make you feel miserable and despondent. It is necessary to learn early on how to compromise, but not give up. You shouldn’t forget to do things you like. Don’t forget to meet your friends at least once a week. Also, make time for your favorite hobby.3.Believe in your love
Perhaps the best proof of love is trust. Trust is the core element of any kind of relationships. When you trust in your love, you become invincible and strong enough to overcome harsh realities of life and various difficulties together. Hard times are the best periods to check the strength and sincerity of your love. 4. Be in touch
Unfortunately, many of us have busy schedules and sometimes don’t have an opportunity to communicate with the spouse. Nowadays it is more convenient to use electronic technology to “keep in touch” during the day. Send a message or call your beloved to share things and feelings about your day. Such type of communication will help you find more topics to speak about in the evening. Don’t wait for a date night, communicate with one another on a daily basis instead.5. Focus on your common needs
One of the most significant secrets of a successful marriage is to focus on your common needs. It is necessary for every person to seek to do good for the other person, instead of fighting over “what about me.” Ensure yourself that you are meeting your spouse’s needs. If your needs are already met you should enjoy your life. A common desire to satisfy your common needs is the basis of a long-lasting and healthy marriage.7. A taboo word
When you get married you would better forget about the existence of the word ‘Divorce.’ Divorce is not the best way to solve your problems. You should not speak and even think about it. Divorce is a destruction of your marriage. It’s better to put all efforts in finding the way out of all difficult situations. Such strategy will make your marriage permanent and strong.7. Ask happily married couples for advice
If you have an opportunity and desire, you can ask happily married couples how to live in peace and love for so long. These wise and experienced people will cheerfully share their ideas and give you a piece of advice. Every couple has a key secret of their own happiness. For example, I asked my grandparents to share their own secret of a long-lasting marriage. I understood that trust, blind eye and a sense of humor were the main elements of their secret. It was a big honor for me to receive an advice from such wise, smart and reserved people.
Happy marriage is a long life journey, full of positive and negative moments....Make your negatives to positive and live a happy married life..Wish You a Happy Married Life...!!!!